New ask Hacker News story: Ask HN: How does one move on after a divorce?

Ask HN: How does one move on after a divorce?
3 by DevToRecruiter | 6 comments on Hacker News.
She was my first and currently only relationship. I have two kids with her. I cannot imagine being with anyone else. I’m not religious but our marriage felt sacred. It’s been 4 years and I’m still going through hell. I tried telling myself I didn’t love her but I still do. We have no contact except regarding the kids. It’s eating me alive. I’m in talk therapy and have tried many other therapies so far without any success. I’m not in an emotional space where I can even “replace” her and even if I was that doesn’t seem healthy. There’s this piece of me that’s holding on to what could have been and I don’t know how to let go. Does anyone have experience in dealing with this? I know this isn’t typical HN. But I’ve posted an emotional support questions here in the past with great success.

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